You Can’t Fix Stupid

I spent last Wednesday holed in up my apartment eating chocolate peanut butter cups, commiserating with friends online, and trying to breathe. That was a thing I needed to do. However, by Thursday evening, plans were being made. More about that later. I am moving on. We are moving on.

But there’s one hump I just can’t get over.

I’m hearing and reading over and over again that I am supposed to try to “understand” and “empathize” with Trump voters.

I look exactly like a Trump voter. I’m a white, southern woman with blue-collar evangelical Christian roots. I spent plenty of time in rural America growing up. I am married to a white-collar professional. I stayed home with my kids for two decades. I even listen to country music! By most demographic measures, I should be voting party-line Republican in every election. So, you would think that I could understand the logic, just a little.

But I just…can’t.

I’m asked to believe that “not all Trump voters are racists.” Maybe that’s true. But it’s also true that all Trump voters voted for a racist

Some Trump voters cite thinly disguised racist reasons such as “taking America back” or “building a wall.” Racists have always been with us. That they voted for a guy who is basically a white nationalist does not surprise me. I certainly can’t empathize with those people, but at least their votes make sense in an ugly kind of way.

But others claim that they are not racists. They cite reasons ranging from putting pro-life judges on the Supreme Court (assuming he gets a chance to do that, which is not certain), to believing that a businessman who specializes in eviscerating companies and firing people will bring jobs back to dying industrial towns. Right.

There is this vague belief among some voters that Trump has super-special asshole powers that he will use to “shake things up.” That might make sense on an episode of The Apprentice, but it is an incredibly irresponsible reason to vote for a president. I don’t think you have to have a college education to figure that out. I really don’t.

So, here’s the deal. If you subtract all the overt racists, I still can think of no reason for voting for Trump that doesn’t involve being either,

1.) so single-minded about one issue (abortion) that other consequences—say, allowing insurance companies to deny coverage for contraception—don’t matter.  Even if they directly contradict the goal that you are supposedly so passionate about.

2.) a complete sucker. OMG, it makes my head hurt.

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So, as far as I can see, all those reasons fall under “stupid.” Including racism and sexism, because how dumb do you have to be to think you are actually better than someone else because you have white skin and/or a penis?

Oh, and the women who voted for him? Despite his pussy-grabbing hobby? There are no words. WTF.

In the South, we have a saying. You can’t fix stupid. And we ought to know. All this talk about “reaching out” to Trump voters sounds very nice. But I think it’s pointless. They aren’t going to change. And Trump knows this. Mister “I love the poorly educated” aimed his pitch straight at the stupid. And he was right. He won.

I’m not in favor of trying to overturn this election, and I’m not in favor of violent protests. We are stuck with this guy for the next four years—unless he just gets bored and walks away. It’s time to move on: to work to minimize the damage and make sure this never happens again. In order to do that, we might have to forgive some of the stupid.

Still, despite my white skin and my Tennessee accent, I’m never going to understand or “empathize” with Trump voters. And I’m never going to forget that they are out there, needing to be outvoted every single time.

Because you can’t fix stupid.

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6 comments

  1. I’m with you…born and raised in lower Alabama. My favorite “are you kidding me” snarky comment is “we put up with Obama, you can put up with Trump.” Bless their ignorant hearts.

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  2. Also have Southern evangelical roots and am feeling quite frustrated with humans in general at the moment. We’re also on the register and wondering what all this may mean for us.

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  3. When you get back here can we please hang out and knit, or have you guys over for game night, because we don’t know each other well IRL, but I wish we did. Everything about this post hits home. (well except the southern/country music stuff, some of my family lived in the south last century, but they stuck out like horn having Jewish thumbs.)

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    • For sure! I am really looking forward to coming back, and now all this has happened I am especially glad we kept a house in Reston. RA drives me nuts, but I really do believe in the values of the community.

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